Austin’s ONLY Free & Monthly
Plus-Size Clothing Swap
Creating a safe, sustainable and community driven space with accessible clothing for women, non binary and trans folk in plus size bodies.
From Backyard Beginnings to Growing Community
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From Backyard Beginnings to Growing Community *
I Slay started with two sisters who loved fashion, shopping, and—most of all—swapping clothes. After struggling to find inclusive spaces at thrift stores and swaps, they realized that plus-size people deserved a place of their own. In February 2024, the first I Slay Clothing Swap was held in founder Christabell Nunez’s backyard. What began with 20 people and a Kia Soul packed to the brim quickly grew. One Instagram post later, Dr. Syd Young of OutWellness offered a home for the swap—and the rest is history. Now, nearly a year later, I Slay hosts over 150 attendees each month and has become the go-to event for plus-size women, femme-identifying, trans, and non-binary folks to swap fashion, build community, and slay.
First Swap
Swap Now 2025
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What to Bring:
Please ensure that all all items you bring are in good condition - free of odors, stains, body & pet hair, or damages.
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We accept plus-size clothing (sizes 14+ or XL and up), including anything that fits a plus-size body—regardless of the size tag.
New and clean lingerie
Gently used or unused bras & sports bras
New or in excellent condition swimwear
Drag costumes
Not sure if your item fits the vibe? Bring it and ask our intake team, we’re happy to help!
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We welcome jewelry, purses,, wallets, scarfs, sunglasses, and adult backpacks
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We accept items such as binders and other essentials for members of the LGBTQIA+ community who are planning or recovering from gender-affirming procedures. All donated items are given to OutWellness to help continuously provide resources to those in need.
What IS NOT Allowed:
No straight sized clothing (12 & under)
No children’s clothing or items
No dirty, damaged, or heavily worn items
Home Decor
NO RESELLERS
No kids under the age of 13
How to Swap
RSVP to help us plan for the crowd. We are growing fast!
Set aside all your clothing & accessories that no longer serve you.
Check-in & head to the sorting table where volunteers will help sort and organize your items.
Get to swapping & use our dressing rooms if needed. Yes, we have mirrors! We love a good fashion show!
General, RSVPs, Parking & Accessibility FAQs
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The I Slay Plus-Size Clothing Swap is a free, monthly community event in Austin, TX that creates a safe, body-positive, and sustainable space for women, non-binary, and trans folks in plus-size bodies (sizes 14+ or XL and up) to swap clothing and accessories.
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Swaps are hosted once a month at OutWellness near St. Edward’s University. Dates and times are posted on our website and RSVP page at www.islaylife.org/links
Note: at times we collaborate with other businesses, and location could change. Always check our swap and events page for location information.
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Yes! 💕 Our swap is completely free to attend and participate in — no entry fees or tickets needed.
We believe that clothing should be accessible to everyone, regardless of income or background. Plus-size clothing is often more expensive and harder to find, so we make sure this space stays open, inclusive, and judgment-free for all. -
Our swaps are open to plus-size women, non-binary, and trans folks. We center plus-size bodies, so allies who aren’t plus-size are encouraged to volunteer instead of swapping, unless assisting for support or mobility reasons.
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We welcome anything that fits plus-size bodies, generally sizes 14 and up (XL and above). Don’t worry too much about the tag — if it fits a plus-size person, it belongs here.
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RSVPs are highly encouraged so we can plan for space and comfort. Walk-ins may be allowed if capacity allows, but RSVPing helps us plan for you.
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You can arrive 30 minutes early to drop off your items for sorting by volunteers. If you arrive earlier than that, you can still leave your clothing with our volunteers — however, no one is allowed to enter the swap area before the official start time.
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No problem! We run from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m., and you’re welcome to come any time during those hours. We do a hard stop at 3:00 p.m. out of respect for OutWellness and their programming after our event.
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Absolutely! You’re welcome to come see how it works, meet people, and get the vibe. We understand it can be nerve-wracking entering a new space — especially as a plus-size person — but you’ll find this environment welcoming, supportive, and full of joy.
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If we reach capacity, we’ll use a one-in, one-out method to keep the space comfortable and safe. That’s why we ask everyone to RSVP and check in with their QR code.
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Of course! As long as they’re plus-size and want to participate, they’re welcome. If they’re not plus-size, they can always be there for support and to enjoy the environment we create.
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While we love your kids, our swap space is small and can get crowded. For everyone’s comfort and safety, we ask that only guests 13 and older attend.
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Yes! There’s free street parking nearby and a small parking lot at OutWellness Austin. We recommend carpooling if you can to make space for everyone.
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Yes — the main swap area is accessible for mobility devices. However, due to space limitations, only attendees and volunteers can enter during setup and event hours.
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Unfortunately, no. We ask that guests wait in their car or nearby until check-in opens so we can set up safely.
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Yes, there’s a small lobby at OutWellness with chairs and a couch where you’re welcome to sit if you need a break.
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Yes — the event is indoors and temperature-controlled. We’ll have AC running in the summer and light heat in the winter for everyone’s comfort.
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Yes! There’s a water tank on-site for guests.
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While we don’t spray anything in the space, we can’t control personal fragrances. Please be mindful of strong scents so the space remains comfortable for everyone.
What to bring, Drop-Offs, Donations, Swap Day Details FAQs
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We accept clean, gently used or new plus-size clothing (sizes 14+ / XL and above). Everyday wear, business attire, special occasion outfits, outerwear, lingerie (new or freshly cleaned), bras, activewear, swimwear, and drag/performance pieces are all welcome.
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Yes! We happily accept shoes in good condition, jewelry, purses, wallets, scarves, sunglasses, hats, and adult backpacks. Accessories make great additions for everyone’s style - as long as they are in good condition.
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Yes — we gratefully accept binders and other gender-affirming items. These are donated directly to our partner, OutWellness , to ensure they go to those who need them most.
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Please do not bring:
Straight-size items (size 12 and under)
Children’s items
Dirty, damaged, or overly worn clothing
Home décor or non-clothing items
Resale or boutique inventory
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Yes, we do! We love supporting plus-size parents and adaptive clothing wearers — everyone deserves access to comfortable, stylish options.
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Yes, please! Fashion-forward and name-brand pieces are welcome as long as they fit within our plus-size guidelines and are in good condition.
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Absolutely! We love creativity and self-expression. As long as your upcycled or handmade items are clean and wearable, bring them in.
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How does the swap work?
RSVP and check in at the door.
Drop off your clothing with a volunteer.
We’ll sort items into categories.
Once items hit the racks and tables, you’re free to browse and shop!
Enjoy the music, community, and body-positive vibes.
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We’ve got hangers covered, but we recommend bringing a reusable tote or laundry bag to carry your new finds.
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No worries! Check with the sorting station — we sometimes have extra bags on hand, though they’re not guaranteed.
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Yes! Many guests wear leggings or light clothing so they can try items on quickly. You can also use the dressing rooms if you prefer. Whatever makes you comfortable is perfectly fine.
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After each swap, our board members and volunteers sort remaining clothing.
Here’s what happens:We donate to local nonprofits that give clothing away for free to those in need.
We keep some items for the next swap to ensure great variety.
We donate quarterly, or sooner if we have extra clothing.
Because plus-size clothing is harder to find in most donation centers, we make sure every item goes where it’s truly needed.
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No strict limit! We just ask everyone to be thoughtful — take what you’ll actually wear and love so there’s plenty for everyone.
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Please be kind and mindful of others waiting.
Keep your time in the dressing room to about five minutes.
No photos or videos near dressing rooms for privacy reasons.
Return anything that doesn’t fit to the racks or a volunteer.
We want everyone to feel safe, respected, and supported while trying things on.
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Please do not remove anything from the sorting station. Our volunteers handle sorting to make sure items are placed correctly. Once clothes hit the racks or designated tables, that’s your time to shop!
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Nope! You can bring your items on the day of the swap. We also offer optional early drop-off days each month for anyone who wants a smoother swap-day experience.
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Sign up for a drop-off slot at www.islaylife.org/links. Bring your clothes during your chosen time, and our volunteers will sort them ahead of the event. On swap day, you can just check in and start swapping!
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It’s not required, but it definitely helps! Sorting your clothes into tops, bottoms, dresses, outerwear, and intimates before you arrive makes check-in quicker and helps volunteers organize everything faster.
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Yes, absolutely. Life happens! The swap is about community, not transaction. You’re always welcome to come, connect, and find what you need — even if you don’t have items to give this time.
Community Behavior, Safety & Volunteers FAQs
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Find a board member wearing a pink lanyard — they’re there to help. We’ll step in right away and handle the situation respectfully and privately.
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We have a zero-tolerance policy for discrimination, body-shaming, harassment, or bullying. Anyone behaving inappropriately will be asked to leave immediately, forfeit all items, and will not be allowed back to any future I Slay events.
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No. This event is for the community — not for profit. If anyone is found collecting for resale, they’ll be asked to leave immediately and will not be allowed back. All items gathered will remain at the swap.
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Yes!
Be kind and respectful.
Celebrate all bodies.
No bullying or judgment.
No reselling.
Keep this a welcoming, body-positive, inclusive space for everyone.
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No — definitely not. Our volunteers and board members donate their time and energy to make the swap possible. As a thank-you, they’re allowed to swap early as their form of payment.
This swap is for the community, by the community. Most of us are busy helping attendees and rarely get to shop ourselves! -
Yes! We’d love to have you. Volunteers help with setup, sorting, and check-in. Email howdy@islaylife.org to join our team.
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Yes! We gratefully accept on-site donations to help keep the swap free for everyone.
Examples of how your donation helps:$15–$30 = garment racks
$25 = a set of velvet hangers or a small folding table
$60–$125 = large six-foot tables
$25–$40 = collapsible shoe racks
Every dollar goes right back into keeping this space open and accessible for the plus-size community.
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Yes! You can donate anytime at www.islaylife.org.
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Yes! We love collaborating with local businesses that support inclusivity and sustainability. Email howdy@islaylife.org — we’d love to partner.
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Yes, please! Hosting a clothing drive helps us collect plus-size clothing year-round. Email howdy@islaylife.org to get started.
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We’d love that! If you’d like to host a swap in your location or sponsor a space, email howdy@islaylife.org and let’s connect.
Media, Content Creators, Community & Events FAQs
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Absolutely! We love when the media helps us share the story of the plus-size community and sustainability. Please email howdy@islaylife.org — we’d love to coordinate interviews, photography, or filming opportunities.
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Yes! We welcome content creators and influencers to attend, take photos, and share their experience. Please be mindful of others’ privacy (no photos near dressing rooms).
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Think the boutique of your dreams — fun, social, body-positive, and full of love. There’s music, laughter, people who look like you, and clothing that actually fits.
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That’s totally okay — most of us were new once! Once you walk in, you’ll feel the positive energy and realize you’re among friends who understand and celebrate you.
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Yes! I Slay hosts all kinds of events — movement classes like yoga, dance, and pole, mental health meetups, creative arts, book swaps, and more. Visit www.islaylife.org/events to see what’s coming up.
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Not yet — but we’re planning to! We already sort seasonally so each swap has something new and fun to discover.
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YES PLEASE! We love for our attendees to share on social media. This helps reach other plus size people, and show them why we were voted Best of Austin 2025! Be sure to tag us, so we can feature you too @islay_youslay on socials.
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